‘OUR MORAL COMPASS’
CAERS SUBSTACK ARTICLE #1
(La version française de cet article se trouve ici. The French version of this article can be found here.)
When I was in eighth grade, we had a class trip to a conservation area. The goal was to learn how to use topographical maps and compasses to guide us when in the wilds, something very useful to learn if you don’t want to get lost. We were expected to obtain our own compass.
My father grew up on a farm and was an avid outdoorsman. He knew how to use a compass quite well and he was excited when he heard of my trip. His father had given him an excellent compass many years before, but living in the city he had not had an opportunity to use it for quite some time. When we finally found it amongst his seldom-used camping gear in the basement, it was pretty dusty and had lost some of its shine. But it still worked, and I remember taking it gingerly into my hands as he stated it now belonged to me. With both delight and pride, I cleaned it to sparkling and looked forward to the class trip.
At the conservation camp, we were paired up and given a topographical map, placed in a location marked on that map, and then told to find our way to another specific location. We were given one hour to do so.
I thought that seemed like a lot of time, but it turned out that navigating with topographical maps and compasses was much harder than it looked; we barely made it to our destination on time. Our teachers looked relieved when our cherub faces appeared at the meeting spot.
Life is often like that. In fact, it is much harder, because we seldom know the destination in advance. That’s why a compass is even more important, and we all have one, even if we have it tucked away in the basement.
Unlike my story above, each of us already has a moral compass, we don’t need to be given one. And whether we realize it or not, we use it on a regular basis, consciously or subconsciously.
Like my story above, it can be hard to read it and use it well. It takes time, study and repetitive use to get really good at navigating with it. And when we do, we can avoid getting lost, or when we do, we can find our way back on track more easily.
Our COVID experience, like a difficult walk in the woods, has challenged us with peaks and valleys, twists and turns along the way. This regular series of articles is an opportunity for us to refine our moral compasses together. The destination is important, of course, but the journey of learning to utilize and trust our own moral compass together is the real goal.
J. Barry Engelhardt MD (retired) MHSc (bioethics)
CAERS Health Intake Facilitator
Beautiful article and reminder how necessary it is to nurture, consult and maintain the moral compass within us. More than that, this article got me thinking about the importance/necessity of passing on strong values and virtues to our children, who will probably need them more than any other generation before... I find bedtime is a great time to talk to my babies (aged 10 and 6) I leverage the fact that they don’t want to go to sleep and use it to talk about their day, their interactions and feelings and say some prayers. Hopefully it will help teach them some reflection skills and I do my best to give them honest and loving feedback. Some conversations go better than others, that’s for sure. Kids are funny little beings ❤️
So true! Good read doc!!